Relationships

Relationships… So many people end up in unhealthy relationships. The reason why they end up in unhealthy relationships is because they get involved for all the wrong reasons. Is it lust? Is it love? Do you really know the difference between lust and love? What is lust? What is love? Today love mean so many different things. Some believes love means affection, attention, and even an emotion. However, love goes beyond what we can see, touch, and feel. Lust? Well, lust is what we can see, touch, and feel. The Webster dictionary, or dictionary.com doesn’t really explain the truths about love and lust. They both only go by what the majority says. Love has no emotion. 
Love is unconditional obideiance. Love is all about respect, and loyalty. Love is unconditional. However, when you know what love means, you began to know that it is unconditional no matter what. Why did you fall in love with that person anyway? Is it because of their physical characteristics? Or is it because of their inner characteristic? Or, is it because they turned you on physically? Why? Do you guys have anything in common? Think about it. What? At least you know the difference between lust and love. At least you know to think about some things before you make the ultimate decision to be in a relationship with someone. Remember you always have choices. When making a decision, you should always feel at peace. Whenever feeling a little doubt, you need more time to think about what your getting yourself into. Know your worth, and know who you are… To be continued.

MUWAH!!!

On my facebook http://www.facebook.com/gailinc I'm always giving away a kiss. You just never know what others are going through, or the challenges they face. All a while they may not feel loved or cared for. I do this to let others know I love them, and that I'm here for them. At times it may go out of text for those, however, they know what it means. I remember watching CNN, and there was a young lady giving away hugs. Can you imagine how they felt after receiving a  hug from her? All it took was one person. However, if there were more of her giving away genuine hugs... Things may get better. People love to feel loved. They love knowing that there's someone out there who's thinking of them. To everyone who reads this blog, receive me knowing that I love and care for all. No matter what happens know that your being loved. Life is what you create it to be. In return, all I ask is that you give it to someone else. MUWAH!!!  

Limited goals create limited lives.

Limiting goals create limiting lives. Anthony Robbins couldn’t have said it better than that. When I think about limiting goals, I think about limiting self. When you limit yourself, your only able to do what you set out to do. However your life is now, is how you want it to be. Don’t like your life, change it. What do you don’t like about your life? Do you know how to make the change that’s needed? After the change what do you do? Questions like these makes you think about what you have to do, and how your going to do it. A lot of times we don’t know how, or what to do. There was many times in my life where I knew change was needed badly. However, at many of times, I didn’t know how to make the change, and when I did make the change I didn’t know how to take the change to the next level. For me, it took a lot of hardships, and pain to learn how to make the change, and how to take my life to the next level. Today I teach people how they can make the change, and take their lives to the next level. Always know limiting goals create limiting lives. I always say, use what you have today, to empower tomorrow! Learn how to take control of your life, and ultimately do what you want to do, enjoying life to the fullest!

My First Time

Hello everyone! My name is Gail Gardner. This is my first time blogging!! I was told from an inspiring peer of mine, that blogging was very essential in connecting with others. This will be my way of you getting to know "more" about me. I have a organization called Blossoms where I empower 9-12 year old girls and raise academic achievements. I also help others become successful by motivating, inspiring, and encouraging. I always say use what you have today, to empower tomorrow. I used to think I needed so much to give back to the community and to help others, when what I had already was more than enough. I encourage people to use the tools and resources you already have in front of you, to help others. Stay tuned, because there is more about me to come...